“…convention and neurosis, the two enemies of understanding, one might say the enemies of love; and how difficult it is in the modern world to escape from one without invoking the help of the other.”
From Iris Murdoch’s encapsulation of modern philosophy in “The Sublime and the Beautiful Revisited.” The full quote:
In the philosophy of Sartre we find the same solitary moral agent [as in Ordinary Language philosophy], and the same emphasis on the moment of choice, but displayed in terms of a dramatic Hegelian psychology. One might say that whereas Ordinary Language Man represents the surrender to convention, the Totalitarian Man of Sartre represents the surrender to neurosis: convention and neurosis, the two enemies of understanding, one might say the enemies of love; and how difficult it is in the modern world to escape from one without invoking the help of the other.
She is taking here of the tension between reductive philosophical thought such as Ordinary Language philosophy, which amounts to a ratification of convention and tradition, first linguistically then conceptually, and is thoroughly conservative (but has the enormous value of making total sense and not being vague, dramatic bullshit), and more expansive metaphysical work like that of Sarte and the Existentialists. Their work is progressive, liberating, anti-convention; it tears apart the old and promises to usher in new, vibrant, experientialist attitudes; the downside is that it leads to neurosis, crippling self-obsessions, alienation, and near-nihilism.
Even if you’re not into philosophy, the art you love reflects this dialectic, the central aesthetic-ethical-philosophical dialectic of the 20th Century. Convention and neurosis. Convention and neurosis.
Think of your friends and your parents; your teachers and your neighbors; of Rockwell and Pollock; of artists and writers and politicians: convention and neurosis. Murdoch’s genius is in this observation: we want to escape both, and it is hard to get away from one without relying on the other.
To avoid the neurotic, obsessive, narcissistic worldview of the young, we become adults: emotional deadened, more conservative (I don’t here mean in an American political sense); to escape the derangement of too much self-indulgent freedom, we accede to constraints we would have howled against a decade before.
This works both ways: to avoid the stifling convention of settled, claustrophobic married life, we have neurotic sexual habits, affairs and indiscretions; to escape the crushing mundanity of working life, we gamble or speed or blow our money on toys.
But what makes her more than merely smart is not just that, but that she sees something else: convention and neurosis aren’t just intellectual problems or lifestyle constraints, they are the enemies of understanding and of love, related concepts in Murdoch’s view. It’s as profound as almost anything I’ve read, and I think about it often as I bounce between convention and neurosis, control and decay, values and whims, morals and freedom.